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Owners Vs. Subscribers: Reclaiming Our Future

A car dealership sales pitch for a monthly subscription app.

Increasingly, our economy is nudging people away from ownership and toward subscription.

My wife was due for a new car, so we went to a local Subaru dealership. Aside from the usual extended warranty and extras, such as the "undercarriage magic coating" conversation, the experience was mostly good: we got free snacks, a good deal on our trade-in, and a car she’s happy with.

The most annoying part arrived when the sales guy asked if we wanted to subscribe to the $50-per-month app now or later.

"Why would we need that?" we asked.

“It would give you the option of remote-starting your new car with a smartphone,” he explained.

The Subscription Trap

We ended up not subscribing, as it was the middle of the summer, $600 per annum seemed steep, and the Minnesota winters are not what they used to be.

But the sour aftertaste of exploitation lingers, leaving my thoughts occasionally drifting to when my car manufacturer might follow suit and slip a fee onto a feature that, for now, remains free.

Features that were once standard—like remote start or heated seats—are now being held hostage by apps with monthly fees. The hardware is already there, but you don’t fully own what you paid for, as full functionality is “pay to play.”

Paid access is replacing possession.

From Ownership To “Rentership”

“You will own nothing and be happy!”—as presented at the 2016 World Economic Forum—aimed for sustainability, but has now morphed into fears of a techno-feudalist society: a future reality in which workers own few assets, little privacy, and zero property, while corporations become overlords who possess assets and control destinies.

The shift has arrived, but the future is not set. We can counteract it yet.

We must, because ownership is the real prize of being human.

At its core, ownership is about self-determination—the ability to control your own direction, decisions, and destiny. It’s not just about owning things; it’s about navigating your own journey.

But increasingly, our economy is pulling people away from ownership and pushing them toward “rentership.”

The Stolen American Dream

As corporate portfolios grow to include property—one in every five single-family homes is now corporate-owned—individual wealth shrinks. What was once the cornerstone of middle-class wealth is rapidly turning into a stream of additional rental revenue for the “capital class.”

As this artificially created demand grows and skyrockets home values, working families are increasingly priced out of the American Dream; and, what’s more disturbing still, their dependence on those who control capital deepens.

This “rentership” model ensures wealth stays at the top and erodes the freedom and financial stability of middle-class and working families.

This trend isn’t random.

It reinforces a system where the few own most, and most own little, while being stripped of more by subscription fees.

It's the classic human-nature scenario of the rich always striving to get richer.

And while the “poor” might not be so poor—middle class and all—we are slowly getting poorer. Food, goods, services, education, and, yes, the subscription costs are outpacing inflation.

As what they earn turns into sustenance, comfort, entertainment, and profit for those who provide these things, there’s little left.

And the hard truth is that when ownership becomes out of reach, so does long-term financial stability, because ownership builds wealth and subscription extracts it.

Increasingly, we are being sold a future where we own nothing, yet pay for everything. If you don't own your assets, your home, or your choices, you aren't a citizen—you're a subscriber. And subscriptions can be canceled at any time.

This is why education has to shift.

Teaching Ownership In Schools

Not that all subscriptions are bad, but we need to show students how to become owners.

Instead of preparing kids just to earn money, we need to teach them how to give away less and keep more so they can secure their future.

We must show them how to build wealth through ownership of physical and digital assets, so they can achieve financial security and live happy lives.

This means understanding investing, thinking long-term, using the power of compounding, and viewing assets not as fleeting luxuries, but as tools for independence.

If they don't understand how the world works, they will be stuck in the rent-this, subscribe-to-that, wealth-extracting, future-destroying cycle forever.

Starting Your Teens On Their Wealth-Building Journey

To help our students and children escape the subscription trap, we have to teach them more than just how to balance a checkbook. That’s the old way. The new way is about ownership.

Ownership is a mindset. It is the difference between being a customer and being a partner in the world economy.

Here is how we can teach this to the next generation:

1. Stop Subscribing to Things You Don't Need

Explain to your kids that corporations have it all figured out.

They play a game that makes the customer feel like she’s winning, but—just like in casinos—the house always wins.

If they charge you $10 a month instead of $100 once, you will likely never stop paying. Over time, you pay a lot more, but end up with nothing.

  • The Problem: Like it or not, we are raising a generation of "renters." They rent their music, their movies, and even the "skins" in their video games. When the subscription ends, the items vanish.

  • The Lesson: Ask kids to look at their monthly money "leaks."

  • Example: If a student pays for a game pass, a music subscription, and a "pro" social media badge, they might be spending $40 a month. That’s nearly $500 a year.

    • Ask them: “In five years, will you have anything to show for that $2,500?” If the answer is no, they are just a subscriber.

2. Start Buying Things That Grow in Value

Most things kids (and adults) want are depreciating assets; they lose value the second you buy them. A new pair of Jordans is worth less the moment it leaves the box.

  • The Problem: We teach kids to save up for stuff. We should be teaching them to save up for assets.

  • The Lesson: An asset is something that puts money in your pocket while you sleep.

  • Example: Instead of buying a $150 pair of J's, help your child put that $150 into a low-cost index fund, like one that tracks the S&P 500.

    • The sneakers will smell and be too small in six months.

    • Owning the index fund means they own a piece of the 503 biggest companies in America. As these companies grow, their money grows.

3. Learn How To Play So You Aren’t Played By The System

The system is designed to keep people working for the capital. If you only provide labor, you will always be tired. If you own capital, your money works for you.

  • The Problem: Schools teach kids how to be good employees (labor). They rarely teach them how to be owners (capital).

  • The Lesson: Teach them about the market. Explain how to use it to build wealth.

  • Example: Talk about the Rule of 72. Divide 72 by the interest rate their investment earns to figure out how many years it takes for their money to double.

    • If the S&P 500 grows by 12% a year, their money doubles every six years.

    • If a student starts at age 14 with $1,000, by age 20 they will have $2,000. By age 26, they will have $4,000. This is without any additional investment.

    • If they keep investing regularly, they will have a fortune and the power of owning their journey and their destiny.

Playing the market game right also means helping students understand the broader forces at play: how markets evolve, how incentives shape systems, and how wealth tends to concentrate at the top unless individuals know how to participate in its creation.

Because, at the end of the day, this isn’t just about economics—it’s about human nature. Left unchecked, systems will optimize for efficiency and profit, not fairness.

Ownership requires intention. It requires awareness. And for most people, it requires being taught—early and often—that renting your life is not the way to build wealth.

The goal isn’t to reject every subscription or system. It’s to recognize the impacts of choosing one or the other.

Because if teens are taught that through “pay to play” access they give up ownership and freedom, they might start changing their patterns.

And if they understand that it is the owners who build wealth, purpose, and happiness, they will change their ways.

If we, the adults in the room—home, school, it doesn’t matter where—want the next generation to reclaim their future, we need to start teaching them how to be owners, not subscribers.


I hope you enjoyed these ideas from my upcoming book Unschooling School: Teaching Agency and Free Thinking in a System Built for Compliance and Conformity, scheduled for release in August 2026.

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BOOKS & TOOLS

Climate Change Debate: The Earth Science Intellectual Thunderdome
$4.00

In this 3- to 4-day lesson, designed for a high school Earth and Space Science classroom, student groups are assigned and investigate 4 leading solutions to the climate change crisis our planet is experiencing. Then, they are called upon to debate against each other to try to convince others that their solution is the most viable and provide counterarguments against other solutions. It’s an intellectual thunderdome in which students are encouraged to use science to attacks each others points of view on climate change but not character.

Why and how does this learning strategy work?

Rote memorization out; seeking answers and deeper learning in.

The debate-style approach to learning is engaging and motivating for learners, because they are challenged to use real evidence and their wits to outmaneuver their opposition.

Not only do they act as investigators, developing communication, collaboration, and argumentation skills but they learn about viable solutions to the climate change conundrum we all find ourselves in. They learn Earth and Space Science content while investigating and debating solutions to a real-world phenomenon, which is what the Next Generation Science Standards (NGSS) call for.

Student Learning and Performance Objectives:

  1. Research multiple, complex climate change solutions to discover that the world is more complicated than a single TikTok trend.

  2. Articulate scientific arguments with actual evidence.

  3. Listen to opposing viewpoints, to hone "social awareness" skills.

  4. Realize that climate change solutions are multi-faceted, messy, and require more than just good vibes.

  5. Describe and support with, not mere belief but actual evidence, the leading climate solutions proposed by, not the coven of online witches but the scientific community.

What's included:

  1. 24 slides that introduce, explain, and guide the teacher and students

  2. Detailed teacher notes on prep, main lesson, and follow up activities

  3. General Lesson flow for teacher to follow to make it all seamless

  4. A short and funny “hook” to increase student buy in

  5. Detailed student directions

  6. A list (research starter pack) of links to legit, scientific websites for students to use.

  7. Group roles (team jobs) with descriptions of what each entails.

  8. 4 climate change solutions to assign to 4 different student groups

  9. Student Learning and Performance Objectives

  10. Detailed Grading Rubric to guide students and make assessment easy

  11. Debate Day introduction and format description

  12. Follow up discussion questions (reflection and debrief)

 
 
 
 
Mistakes Are... Poster
$3.00

In this classroom Mistakes are Expected, Respected, Inspected, Corrected!

Learned helplessness is a result of years of conditioning that mistakes are bad for learning. Nothing is further from the truth - some of the most powerful life lessons come from making mistakes, reflecting on them, and growing as a result.

This is a PNG Poster you can print and display in your classroom to encourage a culture of risk-taking and learning from mistakes.

 
 
 
 
[Earth Science] Terraforming Mars: The Red Planet "Shark Tank" Innovation Challenge
$4.00

Are your students tired of just reading about Earth? Do they gaze longingly at the night sky, dreaming of a future beyond textbook pages? Excellent! Because today, we're not just learning about science; we're making science. We're launching them into the ultimate entrepreneurial challenge: Terraforming Mars: The Red Planet "Shark Tank" Innovation Challenge!

Forget your quaint little recycling programs. We're talking about taking a dusty, desolate rock and turning it into a vacation spot for humanity.

This isn't just a project; it's a desperate plea from the future (and a cunning way to keep them engaged). Your students will become "Terraforming Tech Startups," armed with nothing but their wits, some internet access, and a burgeoning understanding of how Earth actually works. Because, let's be honest, trying to make Mars habitable without understanding our own planet's life support systems is like trying to bake a cake without knowing what flour is.

Prepare for an explosion of creativity (hopefully not literal, on Mars or in your classroom) as they grapple with the fundamental cycles that make life possible. The competitive drive to secure that "virtual investment" (and bragging rights) will channel all their boundless energy into productive, scientific output. Just try to keep the "mad scientist" cackles to a minimum.

Student Learning and Performance Objectives:

  1. Demonstrate understanding of the Carbon, Water, Nitrogen, and Oxygen cycles.

  2. Apply your knowledge of the principles of these cycles to design an ecosystem on a different planet (e.g. Mars).

  3. Illustrate how biogeochemical cycles support life in a closed system (Earth, Mars colony, dome ecosystem etc.).

  4. Pitch your solutions to practice collaboration, critical thinking, and creative problem-solving/design.

What's included:

  1. 20 slides that introduce, explain, and guide the teacher and students

  2. Introductory popcorn reading activity

  3. Research Guide (G-doc link): Includes Note-taking space and links to reputable websites for students to use.

  4. Project timeline and detailed tasks for each day

  5. Group Roles explained in detail

  6. Detailed teacher notes on prep, main lesson, and best practices

  7. List of materials

  8. Student Learning and Performance Objectives

  9. Grading Rubric and Peer Evaluation Form

 
 
Earth Science: 7-Day Weather Report Project (NGSS) HS-ESS2
$4.00

Save planning time with this Atmosphere Unit, 5-day Honors Earth and Space Science Project in which students research, design, create, and present a 7-day weather forecast for a specific city in the US or abroad.

Student Performance and Learning Objectives:

  1. Explain how weather data is collected and interpreted.

  2. Explain how weather patterns may be affected by geography (mountains, plains, valleys etc.).

  3. Explain the atmospheric conditions (pressure, moisture etc.) necessary for different weather (sunny, windy, rainy etc.).

What's included:

  1. 16 slides (Google Slides link for easy use and editing to fit your purposes)

  2. Learning Objectives

  3. Group Roles / Jobs (up to 5 with detailed description of jobs)

  4. Detailed Project Directions / Requirements

  5. Materials/Web Resources List

  6. Link to a "Wheel of Names" containing city names - students spin and receive their assigned city.

  7. Link to a grading rubric for student and teacher use (printable doc).

The project follows the guidelines set by the Next Generation Science Standards (NGSS).


Questions?
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Cornell Notes on Steroids Notebook Bundle of 6
$18.00

The Cornell Notes on Steroids Notebookis a 8.5"x11" 120-page academic notebook that contains an organizational method that improves on the Cornell Note-Taking System. BUNDLE & SAVE.

What If We Approached Education The Same Way We Approach Business?

A student cried in my chemistry class today.

Two days away from the big unit test and upset enough not to bother to grab a tissue and wipe off the snot dripping from her nose, she confirms to me she's freaking out.

Stressed out she'll bomb the test.

She has to work a lot to help out with the bills, so coming in for help is a challenge, but after a rough beginning, she was on a roll.

I even wrote a "good job" postcard and send it home saying I looked into my crystal ball and saw great things in her future. And now this... 

I love learning, but I hate compulsory education.

I don't hate learning standards. There are perhaps too many, but it's good to have a guidance system.

I do hate the idea of force-feeding the same standards to all kids though.

You see, in Minnesota, we require students to take chemistry or physics to graduate high school. Choosing the lesser evil—or so they think—most kids who'd normally opt for something else take chemistry.

Just get through it with the best possible grade they think. 

And who can blame them when the system says they have no other choice but to suck it up and pretend they like it?

And don’t get me wrong - I love chemistry.

I love science.

I teach and love teaching it.

I just do not believe in systems that force kids to take subjects they feel will not play a big role in their future.

And while I also believe that you just never know when the information you learn in the present might become helpful in what you do in the future, roughing it seems all kinds of wrong.

After all, the world wide web will have even more information in the future than it does today.

And, a more patient approach to educating our society’s youngins does not nullify the undeniable fact that the information we so painstakingly force-feed them now will still be readily accessible, but easier to understand, more relevant, and applicable when they’re older and more ready for it.

But What If We Educated The Same Way We Do Business?

Whether it's a service or a product, to be viable, the ideas and the things any business is selling must be Understandable, Relevant, and Relatable to the consumer, because let's be real: We Typically Don't Buy Stuff We Don't Comprehend or Need.

If They Don't Understand It, They Can't Learn It

If we approached educating the same way we approach business we would see the necessity of delivering content that's understandable to kids. 

This means taking into account their brain development before we tell them to take this or that class.

As a chemistry teacher, I notice many kids taking my class being unable to understand chemistry. It is hard to quantify it—to put a percentage on it—but maybe half of the 16 and 17-year-olds I encounter do not possess the abstract thinking required to understand chemistry. Their brain just isn't developed well enough when they're taking this class, one full of abstract ideas and nonconcrete concepts.

The plain and simple truth is we do not take enough time to figure out if our students are ready to take certain classes. We just have them grind it out.

They hate it.

We blame it on the teenage phase.

In the business world, this would be equivalent to a company putting the blame for its incompetence on its customers.

Imagine this: A startup puts out a product nobody gets—something so abstract that most people have to work really hard to imagine what it does. How successful do you think that would be? 

If They Don't Find It Relevant, They Don't Want To Learn It

If we approached educating the same way we approach business we would see that we really need to focus on delivering content that's relevant to kids.

I am not saying that everything we teach in schools is irrelevant.

What I am saying is that a lot of it is.

For example, we talk about electron configurations in an atom. Why the hell do kids need to know that? They should know what the atom looks like, but why do they need to write a bunch of numbers and letters they have no use for to represent theoretically probable locations of particles no one can see?

They cannot use it right now.

It does not fulfill a tangible pressing need.

It can't make their life better in any way, shape, or form.

They don't buy it. 

Once again, imagine if someone in the business world took this approach. Maybe some startup could create a service nobody needs now but might need in the future. I wonder how that would do? Somehow, I am having difficulty visualizing people lining up to sign up for something some of them might or might not use in 5 to 10 years. Shaky. 

If They Can't Relate To It, They Won't Learn It

If we approached educating the same way we approach business in today's world we would see that we really need to focus on delivering content that's relatable to kids.

In any other industry, if the user doesn't see themselves in the product, the product fails. Yet, in the classroom, we expect students to buy into a narrative that feels like it was written for a different species.

It has been a long-standing tradition to teach social studies through slideshows and packets.

It goes something like this:

First, students transfer information from the lecture slides into their notebooks—most often verbatim as processing time costs too much class time.

Second, students transfer the previously transferred information from their notebooks into packets that contain questions on the left and empty boxes for answers on the right. They often copy from each other to avoid sifting through the notes taken during what feels now like an out of body experience.

Too bad the aliens didn’t upload this shit to my brain some regret.

But what comes next takes the cake—the temporary data transfer from packet to brain, because the test is tomorrow. Just follow these simple instructions:

  1. Read through the packet as many times as possible the night before and the morning of the test.

  2. Get an A.

  3. Promptly forget all this garbage and hope the final is not cumulative.

We call this education and hope kids dig it.

They don’t. They are right not to.

But they Machiavelli it ‘cause college.

The truth is, we are asking them to save lifeless, useless data. The content doesn't resonate so their brains treat it like spam and put it in the junk folder.

We turn the vibrant stories humanity was built on into hollow transcripts and we wonder why they unsubscribe.


I hope you enjoyed these ideas from my upcoming book Unschooling School: Teaching Agency and Free Thinking in a System Built for Compliance and Conformity., scheduled for release in August 2026.

If you’re done watching students treat your lessons like spam to be deleted the moment the test is over, this book is your guide to engineering relevance that sticks. Let’s stop training kids to Machiavelli their way through packets and start creating the loud, messy, and meaningful learning experiences they deserve.

 
 
 

BOOKS & TOOLS

Climate Change Debate: The Earth Science Intellectual Thunderdome
$4.00

In this 3- to 4-day lesson, designed for a high school Earth and Space Science classroom, student groups are assigned and investigate 4 leading solutions to the climate change crisis our planet is experiencing. Then, they are called upon to debate against each other to try to convince others that their solution is the most viable and provide counterarguments against other solutions. It’s an intellectual thunderdome in which students are encouraged to use science to attacks each others points of view on climate change but not character.

Why and how does this learning strategy work?

Rote memorization out; seeking answers and deeper learning in.

The debate-style approach to learning is engaging and motivating for learners, because they are challenged to use real evidence and their wits to outmaneuver their opposition.

Not only do they act as investigators, developing communication, collaboration, and argumentation skills but they learn about viable solutions to the climate change conundrum we all find ourselves in. They learn Earth and Space Science content while investigating and debating solutions to a real-world phenomenon, which is what the Next Generation Science Standards (NGSS) call for.

Student Learning and Performance Objectives:

  1. Research multiple, complex climate change solutions to discover that the world is more complicated than a single TikTok trend.

  2. Articulate scientific arguments with actual evidence.

  3. Listen to opposing viewpoints, to hone "social awareness" skills.

  4. Realize that climate change solutions are multi-faceted, messy, and require more than just good vibes.

  5. Describe and support with, not mere belief but actual evidence, the leading climate solutions proposed by, not the coven of online witches but the scientific community.

What's included:

  1. 24 slides that introduce, explain, and guide the teacher and students

  2. Detailed teacher notes on prep, main lesson, and follow up activities

  3. General Lesson flow for teacher to follow to make it all seamless

  4. A short and funny “hook” to increase student buy in

  5. Detailed student directions

  6. A list (research starter pack) of links to legit, scientific websites for students to use.

  7. Group roles (team jobs) with descriptions of what each entails.

  8. 4 climate change solutions to assign to 4 different student groups

  9. Student Learning and Performance Objectives

  10. Detailed Grading Rubric to guide students and make assessment easy

  11. Debate Day introduction and format description

  12. Follow up discussion questions (reflection and debrief)

 
 
Mistakes Are... Poster
$3.00

In this classroom Mistakes are Expected, Respected, Inspected, Corrected!

Learned helplessness is a result of years of conditioning that mistakes are bad for learning. Nothing is further from the truth - some of the most powerful life lessons come from making mistakes, reflecting on them, and growing as a result.

This is a PNG Poster you can print and display in your classroom to encourage a culture of risk-taking and learning from mistakes.

 
 
[Earth Science] Terraforming Mars: The Red Planet "Shark Tank" Innovation Challenge
$4.00

Are your students tired of just reading about Earth? Do they gaze longingly at the night sky, dreaming of a future beyond textbook pages? Excellent! Because today, we're not just learning about science; we're making science. We're launching them into the ultimate entrepreneurial challenge: Terraforming Mars: The Red Planet "Shark Tank" Innovation Challenge!

Forget your quaint little recycling programs. We're talking about taking a dusty, desolate rock and turning it into a vacation spot for humanity.

This isn't just a project; it's a desperate plea from the future (and a cunning way to keep them engaged). Your students will become "Terraforming Tech Startups," armed with nothing but their wits, some internet access, and a burgeoning understanding of how Earth actually works. Because, let's be honest, trying to make Mars habitable without understanding our own planet's life support systems is like trying to bake a cake without knowing what flour is.

Prepare for an explosion of creativity (hopefully not literal, on Mars or in your classroom) as they grapple with the fundamental cycles that make life possible. The competitive drive to secure that "virtual investment" (and bragging rights) will channel all their boundless energy into productive, scientific output. Just try to keep the "mad scientist" cackles to a minimum.

Student Learning and Performance Objectives:

  1. Demonstrate understanding of the Carbon, Water, Nitrogen, and Oxygen cycles.

  2. Apply your knowledge of the principles of these cycles to design an ecosystem on a different planet (e.g. Mars).

  3. Illustrate how biogeochemical cycles support life in a closed system (Earth, Mars colony, dome ecosystem etc.).

  4. Pitch your solutions to practice collaboration, critical thinking, and creative problem-solving/design.

What's included:

  1. 20 slides that introduce, explain, and guide the teacher and students

  2. Introductory popcorn reading activity

  3. Research Guide (G-doc link): Includes Note-taking space and links to reputable websites for students to use.

  4. Project timeline and detailed tasks for each day

  5. Group Roles explained in detail

  6. Detailed teacher notes on prep, main lesson, and best practices

  7. List of materials

  8. Student Learning and Performance Objectives

  9. Grading Rubric and Peer Evaluation Form

How to Achieve Competence and Create Confidence

Achieve Competence and Create Confidence

The following is a Letter to All Teens and Their Parents.

“Competence Creates Confidence”

I heard that somewhere and it got me thinking...

What is Competence exactly? How do you get it?

Think about something you are good at, maybe really good at. Maybe it’s a sport like soccer or basketball. Maybe it’s painting, sculpture, or another art form. Maybe you’re good at fixing stuff or cooking or gaming or have some other skill you feel competent in. How do you feel when you do stuff that requires you to use this skill?

Chances are whatever your mind conjured was positive. You feel good to do stuff you’re good at because you experience success in it. This motivates you to keep going. You keep doing it and as a result you keep getting better at it. You keep getting better because once you feel competent you have the confidence to try new things. You try new ways; new techniques and strategies. Some don’t help much but some lead to small improvements. Over time, this series of small improvements adds up to a big improvement which you likely don’t even notice because you enjoy doing this thing you’re good at so much.

Imagine school being this way. You might already be a good student but how would you feel knowing that no matter what subject you have to take you can crush it? How would you feel to have the confidence that you can understand difficult concepts, learn them fast, and actually remember them months later when it’s final exam time?

You see, there are 2 types of people in this world - those who fear change and let their anxieties paralyze them to keep them stuck and those who fear change but decide to face their anxieties and grow as individuals. The first type stays comfortable but average (or less than) while the second type of people succeeds at school, work, and life. The good news is that everyone has the potential to be successful.

No matter how good or ugly your school competence is you can get much better at school. And don’t worry - you won’t have to drink the weird Kool Aid to get there. All you have to do is follow the same process that took you to the level of competence and confidence you have in the other skills you’re good at. Except this time it won’t be trial-and-error. You will have small, easy, and specific strategies at your disposal.

You already have the “school skill.” It’s far from perfect but it’s a skill and as such it can be improved. The only way to improve it is to change how you approach school - learn and apply new learning techniques and study strategies - things that help you do school smarter, faster, and better.

You see, after overcoming the initial anxiety of trying something new you will realize that it’s the new experiences and new learning that lead to an upward spiral of success. As you get more comfortable doing things outside of your comfort zone, you end up learning even more, being more competent, and feeling much more confident. This is a result of the “happy” brain chemicals such as dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin your brain produces when you experience positive feelings such as joy, confidence, or feeling successful.

Once you accept and understand that fear-induced stress chemicals like cortisol and adrenaline are normal brain reactions to all things unknown, you will lessen their effect on your decision-making. They will no longer prevent you from venturing into the unknown. It will become easier to start making small changes to how you do school and other life things. Each small change will bring more competence and more confidence and reduce stress while increasing the happy chemicals. Keep at it and you will become more than a great student - you will turn into a learning machine - someone who learns and applies new things to make their life better every day.

So, you’ve reached a decision intersection. You can go straight, left, or turn right. Here’s what awaits you:

  • Straight: Do nothing. Keep complaining. Stay as you are. Complain some more.

  • Left: Try to change. Study more. Grind it out. Do somewhat better at school.

  • Right: Learn and apply skills that help you learn faster, study smarter, and remember more. Improve your learning skills in small, easy steps that make you a much better student and school much easier.

Decision Intersection: Which decision involves the most progress?

Decision Intersection: Which decision involves the most progress?

The Right decision involves Change, which involves Uncertainty, which involves Facing Your Fears. But, it helps you Achieve Competence which Creates Confidence.

But you already know that. It's time to choose who you want to be.

Good luck to you no matter what you decide.

And to Your Parents: 

Being a dad I know how you feel about your children's success. If you're a bit like me you don't want to leave their success up to luck or school alone. This is why I wrote my new book Crush School Student Guide: Learn Faster, Study Smarter, Remember More, and Make School Easier, which is a workbook that contains a series of short, fun, and easy to follow lessons designed to incrementally turn a mediocre or good student into an advanced learner ready to crush the challenges of high school, college, and the world of work.

It is now 33% off regular price on Amazon. Just click here.

You have the power to change lives. Use it often so they can change the world.

Oskar


2026 Crush School